Not all of us are blessed with the gift of communicating with people. Fortunately you probably just haven't been properly educated. So in the next few blog posts I am going to give some tips on how to communicate with people.
EYE CONTACT: Most of us have the very bad habit of looking down at the floor when we are talking to someone. We need to learn to look them in the eyes. It is extremely important to keep eye contact during a conversation.
POSTURE: This is important, because when we slouch we exude insecurity and lack of self esteem. Stand up straight, it also makes you look taller, looking taller is a good thing.
SMILE: Well this is somewhat self explanatory, Smile more, no one likes to spend time with someone who is in a bad mood. If you do find yourself in a bad mood and not up to smiling, then try and keep your distance. But try to make an effort to smile. Just do it … close your eyes, think of something that will make you happy … and SMILE. It will do wonders for you, I promise.
MEET PEOPLE: We tend to try and avoid strangers (I am extremely guilty of this one myself). I know, as kids, we were taught never to talk to strangers. But … hey … we are grown up now (well at least some of us are), so its ok now. In order to learn to communicate with people, we need to be comfortable with speaking to anybody. So make a point of it today to go out and greet a total stranger today.
To your success.
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